Tuesday, March 30, 2010

What else would ya be doin' of an Easter wkend??


So now......Easter is a time to reflect on how good you've been for lent and indulging in everything you gave up during this reflective...is it 40 days? Well, that very long time that you were all good and disciplined, right??

Well, why not hit the gorgeous town that is Kilkenny and go to the Absolut Style @ Set 3-day, Vintage Fashion, Furniture & Film Fair? Everything you could dream of in the ultimate weekend of indulgence is waiting for you......those involved are well aware of "these recessionary times" (I swear if I hear that one more time.....oh wait...sorry!) and are offering a daily ticket cost of only €8!!!!! That's a serious bargain!

So, what's on the agenda.........?
Movies to die for all day on Friday including Popcorn and goody bags - YUM! (I may spend 8hrs watching movies......because I can!)
Masterclasses in Style, Hair, Make-up on Saturday to get u all 'SET@ for a night of Mayhem with the incredible DJing talents of The Stylebitches

AND ....

Chill out time with their Soulful Sunday with live Jazz music, more amazing movies & food stalls (very important!!).

.........if that wasn't enough, there will be fashion, furniture, Hair, Beauty and Photoshoot stalls there throughout the whole weekend.

There is one, incredible woman behind it all!! Anything she puts her name to is a roaring success and I've NO doubt that this weekend will be her most successful to date. That woman is the stunningly marvellous Blanaid Hennessy (of http://www.blanaid.com/ and http://www.thestylebitches.com/ )

I am 100% sure that next year it will be a case of:
"Have you got your EP tickets?"
"EP, are you mad? Have you got your Absolut Style @ Set tickets more importantly?"

Best of luck B, so, so proud of you !

Luc xxx


Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Life's too short....


Sometimes in life something really simple can make us open our eyes and realize that our time 'here' is so limited. On this occasion, it was a documentary on Jade Goody a year after her death. I'm not big into magazines or Celebs to be honest and Jade Goody was no exception. I never really followed her life or what she did but I always remember thinking that under her big-mouthed, brash personality, you could see a girl
who was full of love, especially when it came to her kids and I admired that so much in her.


I do remember when it came out that she had cervical cancer and being a bit shocked by it. She was so young and full of life, how could that happen? Since Jade got diagnosed over 400, 000 more women have gone to get a cervical check this year. This is something that we should be doing regularly but before now have 'forgotten' to do or basically put on the long finger - I did it all the time but not anymore. Had Jade been diagnosed 2-3months earlier, she would still be alive today.

While watching the documentary, I was blubbering away - I know, it doesn't take much to open my tear ducts in fairness but it was all the accounts her true friends were giving of her, her kids father speaking so highly of her and in such a beautiful way and the clincher for me was when her mum sobbed & said "Jade had always been a mum to me, I was never a mum to her but when she got sick, she couldn't be a mum to me anymore, so I had to be her mum. I regret to say that it was only when my daughter was poorly, before she died that I was ever a real mum to her".

I always say to myself, "Live in the moment", etc. but this really hit home for me. Life is WAY too short and I don't want to have any regrets like Jade's mum clearly did. From now on I am going to try to do the following:



  • Tell those closest to my heart how much I love them

  • When I'm with someone, I'm not going to fear losing them, just cherish being with them

  • Take a moment every day to be thankful for all that I have & not dwell on what I don't have

  • When things go wrong, laugh and see the funny side of it

  • Take risks knowing that I'll be ok, no matter what the outcome may be

  • When things annoy me in others, I'm going to look at what I love about them instead

  • Remember to look around me & see the beauty in nature

  • Achieve all the things that I've always wanted to do

  • Basically, live every day like it's my last, because who knows, it may very well be...

One of my favourite quotes sums it up for me:

"Sing like no one's listening, love like you've never been hurt, dance like nobody's watching and live like it's heaven on earth"

Picture from http://www.veryhappypig.com/

Sunday, March 21, 2010

When in (self) doubt.......

I have always known that the industry I am sure is for me is one of the toughest to get into and even when you're in it, it's pretty damn hard to stay there! That's why you have to stay 110% positive and truly believe in yourself.

I've been completely shocked by the response I've had from some of the Head Honchos in the Media world. The fact that they have even replied to my correspondence with them is a huge compliment in the first place, but some have taken the time to meet me in person, give me advice and help me to see where my 'niche' lies. It really has blown me away and I feel so lucky.

In saying that, I still have my days when I think to myself, "Is this it? Am I just trying to grasp at something which is unattainable? What the hell am I doing?"! (those thoughts occuring in particular after I lodge money into my account and my balance is LESS than I've just lodged........ouch!). Generally, I really do believe that this is what I should be and will be doing full-time, I just need to be patient but there are times when that self-belief flies out the window and I seem to be paddling in a pool of self-doubt.

Yesterday was one of those days, until I read this:
"There is nothing you cannot do, and if you approach all things in life in the right order, you will do everything you want. Live your dream on the inside first, completely and totally, and then it will manifest in your life. When you have tuned yourself on the inside so completely, you will magnetize everything you need for your dream to become a reality.
This is the law. All creation in your life begins inside of you."

I know a lot of people think all of this is a load of crock, but honestly, I have so many examples of it happening in my life that I truly believe in it. Sometimes I just need to read something like that as a little reminder . So now I am going to bounce back out of the pool of self-doubt and open the window to let that self-belief back in, where it belongs :)

Here's to a great and exciting week ahead...
Luc xxx

Quote from The Secret, Rhonda Byrne (surprise, surprise!!)
Picture from http://www.marcelnunis.com/

Friday, March 19, 2010

Who are you?

Unlike many people, turning 30 last year didn't scare me at all. I actually embraced it! Now don't get me wrong, it's not like I donned a housecoat and a pair of slippers!! I'm still a kid in my head and love to go out and have the craic but I am also not ashamed to admit that I love staying in at weekends to watch The Late Late (ok a little shame there, but I can take it!!). Turning 30 for me was more about realising how lucky I was with everything in my life, feeling confident in my own skin and recognising how much I have grown compared to when I was in my early 20's. Back then, I thought I knew it all and thought that I'd learned all I had to learn!!!

Looking back at myself in my early 20's now, I realise that I really didn't have a clue about life nor did I have the answer to everything. I felt so differently about myself and relationships with others....I was the ultimate crowd-pleaser, bending over backwards to try to keep everyone happy, never being able to say "no" for fear of ruining a friendship/relationship. Now I know that if I can't do something someone asks me to do, they won't actually fall out with me or hate me forever!! I've learned to be able to deal with issues/dilemmas/problems in a completely different way and hopefully, a better way.

Today I was questioning myself about a lot of different things and though I've definitely changed and matured in the past few years, I still don't know it all and I'm still learning about myself. I asked myself "Is there ever an age when we feel like there's nothing new we can learn about ourselves? When I'm 40/50/60, will I still be learning about myself? And if so, can we ever really know exactly who we are?".

I know myself now a hell of a lot better than I did 10 years ago:- I know what I want to do with my life & the things that make me happy, the type of guy that I want to end up with & more importantly, the type of guys I definitely don't want to end up with, how friends should be treated and how they should treat me, how to be decisive (with the exception of when I'm hungover, still haven't mastered that!), how to stand up for myself when I feel I've been treated unfairly and lots more! But, what will I be able to add to my list when I hit the big 40, 50, etc??

It's all very exciting really!! All of this was going through my head (I tend to think ALOT!!) and then I picked up the thought for today from Rhonda Byrne's The Secret and check out what it said:

"Sometimes, when we don't have the courage to change, everything changes around us to direct us to a new path.....
...You cannot stop yourself from growing - evolution requires it."

Pretty appropriate :)
Have a FAB weekend. I'm off to get myself ready for The Late Late !!!
Luc xxx

Picture from http://www.growthlink.co.za/

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

My new 'past-time'

I'd never ever been on a ski or snow holiday before but like surfing, it was something that I'd ALWAYS wanted to do and knew that once I tried it, I'd be completely addicted to it! My girls, the lovely Louise and Dee (who made up 2 of the 4 of us who went surfing last summer!!) were going on a snowboarding trip back in February. I really wanted to go with them but didn't think I'd be able to afford it.

I am usually a very happy-go-lucky, positive kinda gal but even I have 'down' days!! Back in February, I had one of those days and after feeling sorry for myself for a bit, the first thing I did was call the girls to see if there was room for me on the trip. (This was Wednesday and they were flying out on the Sat!!). Once I mentioned it, both Lou and Dee basically told me I was coming on the trip with them!! I put a shout out to my mates for some ski gear, booked my flights and travel insurance and before I knew it, we were at Dublin airport on the Saturday morning!

We arrived at Grenoble airport and collected the little Fiat Punto we'd hired. The girls had their own snowboards, so to say that it was a bit cramped in the car is an understatement! But we over-lapping the apartment (that was very kindly given to us for the week) with 3 other guys for our first night. They left us note to say where they were and to come join them for food. We decided we'd leave the food and go straight to the bar and told them to join us their after their grub.

The bar, Bazoom, was very cool but was pretty empty. This didn't bother us girls though as no matter where we go, we tend to get a bit of a party mood going!! The three guys joined us afterwards and they were lovely. They were telling us that this was about as good as it gets in Bourg on a Saturday night and not to get our hopes up for mad 'apres-ski'. By then end of the night, we had the whole of Bazoom up dancing and ended up going to a nite-club until about 4am!! The lads couldn't believe it!!

They left early the next morning whilst we were all still slumbering! Then we hit the slopes at about 12pm!! Lou had snowboarded 3 times before (she says it's only twice because she likes being the best out of the 3 of us at this!!) and Dee had been up to Mount Leinster for a day when we had the "Big Freeze" and I'd never done it. We are ALL extremely competitive, to put it mildly! Lou had decided that we were not going to get lessons, she would teach us. When I asked her where the 'Beginners Slope' was, she just said, "Eh, there is none, the only way to learn Luc, is by going up the mountain and doing it bit by bit". I would say I'm quite fearless when it comes to sports, but seriously, I took one look up the mountain and was officially sh*tting it!!

In fairness to Lou, she was extremely patient with us both and did a great job! With alot of falling on our arses and finding our arms at angles which I never thought were possible, we got the hang of it after a while and I loved it as much as I thought I would. Les Arcs is the name of the resort and apparently it was the first place to introduce snowboarding into Europe (so I'm told, don't quote me on that!!). The scenery is just breath-taking. It was utterly divine. Going up in the ski-lifts, all I could see were mounds of hills and trees covered in what looked like untouched ice-cream. Looking back as we went up the mountain, the sun was blazing down on Bourg and the snow looked like a gazillion diamonds, glistening up at me. My heart melted then and I felt such intense happiness.

After a long day, we decided we'd treat ourselves to a pint back in Bazoom and were welcomed with open arms by our new friends we'd met the night before. We got talking to 3 young guys who were from London. They'd been in Bourg for 6 weeks and are staying there for the season (lucky bastardos!). They were aged from 18 to about 22 and were such pleasant, fun and respectful guys. We formed a bond that night and for the rest of the week, they became more like family. They took on the challenge of teaching us how to snowboard (Lou was off the hook!) and they were just unbelievable. One of them would always wait for one of us, make sure that we were ok and give us tips on what we were doing wrong or encourage us by telling us how great we were doing!


They brought us up the many different slopes that make up Les Arcs and showed us some of the most beautiful places. We were pretty much inseparable for the whole week. Joel, the youngest, adopted me as his mom, he called me Mom all the time and I actually answered to it!! They'd come over to us to have dinner with us and just hang out. From what they'd told me, it seemed that they came from a pretty rough area but these guys just couldn't do enough for us and were nothing but polite and courteous to us.


We had an absolute ball and we just didn't want it to end. We were kind of rushed on our last day because we wanted to get down the slopes one last time!! So, while we went off and did the shopping to replenish whatever we'd used, the boys cleaned our apartment from top to bottom. You'd want to have seen it, it was immaculate. We just can't thank Joel, Louis and Aaron enough. They made our holiday! Unfortunately, it had to come to an end and saying goodbye to our boys was awful. Sure I was in bits, the big eejit that I am!!



I can honestly say that a week away with the girls is the most perfect cure-all there is!!! We laughed non-stop, had our nights out and our nights in, talked about everything but most of all, had so much fun. So, to my girls, Dee and Lou, thanks so, so much. When we left Portugal, we all said "That was the best holiday ever!" and now we've had yet another "best holiday ever" :)